According to relationship expert John Gottoman, he can predict divorce with 91% accuracy after listening to couples for 5 minutes. He runs the Love Lab and is the author The Relationship Cure and The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. What he found is that a HARSH START UP is an indicator for doom. Imagine if you applied this theory to all your negotiations at work, with your friends, with your children. Slow your roll and start up on a positive note. Want an example? Check out the video below about a gal asking for advice on how to get her husband to pick up his dirty underwear.
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